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« on: July 02, 2009, 12:05:25 PM » |
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For the fairer members here I have a question.
What are the top three things which would attract you a particular man. I am talking about a man you know socially, not someone you just saw for the first time across a crowded room.
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ColdFusion
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« Reply #1 on: July 02, 2009, 03:05:09 PM » |
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I am not a woman, but I can guess that the answers you will get will not reflect the reality. You are over-estimating women by thinking that there are three factors that they use to choose a man; the truth is that there are only two factors.
1.) is he alive and will he stay alive long enough to father as many children as she wants
2.) is he filthy rich
There, plain and simple. Nothing complicated about it.
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Mickey
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« Reply #3 on: July 02, 2009, 04:27:55 PM » |
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Great article!
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shytic
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« Reply #4 on: July 02, 2009, 04:38:45 PM » |
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To my mind women are looking for stability in men, both emotional and financial, or to phrase it better for some qualities that they think will bring men this financially security and peace of mind.
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Peter
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« Reply #5 on: July 02, 2009, 05:02:04 PM » |
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Very eloquently put Shytic. So basically women want a man with money. Ouch, that must make a man feel very special.
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Laneris
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« Reply #6 on: July 02, 2009, 06:18:28 PM » |
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I think a man should be intelligent, dynamic or modern and have a warm heart.
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Brandon
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« Reply #7 on: July 02, 2009, 06:45:54 PM » |
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Wouldn't the three things be a cock and balls?
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TBear
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« Reply #8 on: July 03, 2009, 06:45:14 PM » |
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I think that is a typical male response. Women have a little more depth to them than that.
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Laneris
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« Reply #9 on: July 05, 2009, 10:19:36 AM » |
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Women are having too many demands to their future life partner. Especially those women who are educated professionals are in the risk of staying single for the rest of their lives. Here is an interesting article from Sueddeutsche called "Einsame Spitze" http://sz-magazin.sueddeutsche.de/texte/anzeigen/28735 about successful but single women. |
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maplegirl
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a woman with passion
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« Reply #10 on: July 05, 2009, 12:09:04 PM » |
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Men do not want a woman to be successful, that much is clear. They want an obedient wife to cook and clean for them.  |
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Mickey
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« Reply #11 on: July 06, 2009, 01:30:49 PM » |
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I think the reason successfull women stay single is that they have financial independence, so they don't need to get married.
Most of the men I know would like to marry a successful woman who can pay for herself. If they find such a woman, they will be happy to use the spared money for a cleaner and a cooker.
But for the reason above, they generally don't find one. So they marry a woman who is crap at earning money and compensate by cleaning and cooking.
Sad but true...
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Boomboom
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« Reply #12 on: July 07, 2009, 12:30:05 PM » |
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Sad but true, indeed.
But not for much longer I suspect. Equality beckons!!!!
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Simon
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« Reply #13 on: July 10, 2009, 08:55:33 AM » |
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Money, a better-looking friend, ugly ex-girlfriends.
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shytic
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« Reply #14 on: July 12, 2009, 11:28:21 AM » |
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There are lot of successful women who would like to meet a man or maybe even are ready to marry him but men are mostly not worth their wile. They are emotionally underdeveloped and therefore deserve a cleaner or a cook to be their wife.
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